Sometimes the best way to find a slut is just to go to the bar, get wasted and see what happens. This is the method I’ve used for years. The only problem is that my decision making after 11pm seems to get worse and worse. I started to wonder if there was a better way to find a slut without actually getting wasted and ending up with some weird woman in my bed. Maybe there was a way to find someone just looking to hookup like me that was a little more calculated. Of all the times I went to the bars and came home with someone, there were 10 other times that I came home with no one.
I started looking online for sites that all promised to help me “find a hookup”, “get laid”, or have a “casual encounter.” The truth is that most of these sites just didn’t produce what I was hoping for. Some of them were entertaining, some were just scams, and some just didn’t have enough girls around my area to help.
I decided to try something a little different. Instead of going to these trashy hole-in-the-wall bars, I started going to bars that were a little more upscale. I started dressing just a little nicer and going alone to these bars sober at 11pm or so. This way I could find a slut within the crowd I’m interested in, and then have some shots and talk to her. This way I’m helping my screening process and I’m also not getting so wasted that I have no idea what’s going on.
The trick here is to find a slut or two and then go to the bar and have a few drinks. Don’t let her see you until you are actually ready to talk or dance. The nice thing about these nicer places is that they’re also bigger and more crowded. This allows you slip in and out of her line of sight. With the bars I used to go to, you could always see everyone there the whole time. These other bars give the impression that you’re always seeing new people. I think that works to my favor. The one other big thing that I think is important is the need to buy her a drink. Buy her one, maybe two drinks right away but her drinks are up to her after that. If she sees you as just someone to buy her drinks, she will use you for that. If on the other hand, you don’t buy her a drink then she might think you are cheap or possibly even suspicious. After you’ve established that connection and had a few drinks, just be yourself and let the night take you. Don’t try to force anything, just have a good time.
“Yeah this works too, but I think it’s just as easy to go into a dive bar later and just start hitting on girls. I don’t think you have to go to a swankier bar to find a slut.” – Gary B.
“I’m always getting way to drunk too fast, so this helps.” – Steven S.
“Don’t go to the bars looking for a slut. Just go to the bars looking to have fun and eventually fun will find you. Most of the time “fun” has a bra and panties. Just relax and enjoy your time. Things will work out.” -Raj